How many hurts and grievances from your own past can you recall? How many do you hold onto and still recall in vivid terms?
A goal without a plan is only a wish. If you want to be serious about achieving your goals, better have them in your consciousness and work out the steps to achieve them.
My child's question got me thinking. I am unsure what is not right. She may have a condition, or maybe that is her character. Regardless, her behavior is not perceived as a social norm.
If you are sitting next to a stranger, will you strike up a conversation with him or her? I did just that with the driver of the coach I was sitting in, and learnt about life.
If you want to learn something well, you have to plan for success to happen. That is how I tackle the challenge of running a marathon.